Tuesday, 4 July 2017

See The Reason Why Being Lonely Sometimes Matters To Us.


Loneliness is not something to aim for, but being alone doesn't necessarily mean you are lonely. Spending more time with ourselves without being surrounded by people and without virtually surrounding ourselves through all those social networking platforms. We can find solace in the company that matters most, here are the reasons...

Being lonely allows you to keep your mind clear- I'm sure am not the only person who finds himself mentally overwhelmed. Our minds are capable of storing massive amounts of informations, our minds have a filing system that in part works on its own but it requires slowing down and removing yourself from the constant flow of current informations. You really need to organize it, you can't process and file simultaneously.

It allows you to stay more focused- You know we aren't meant to just be focusing on missions, we are meant to focus on ourselves. Very few living creatures are capable of understanding themselves as individuals but most simply act without understanding that they exist. There's no point of constantly going after achievements if you lose sight of who you are as a living being. So spend more time focusing on yourself.

It forces you to become less on actions- The fact is most of us are dependent on others for our happiness, we use them as distractions. Most people don't like being alone because they feel the need to be social to internet with others. This is a part of human nature. However the amount of social interaction we require to remain sane is nowhere near the amount most of us experience on a daily basis. Moreover, the amount necessary is much less than the amount we feel.

It makes you slow down- Life isn't in race, if it were, then you should be trying to avoid the last person, not get there sooner. Taking the time to slow down and enjoy the little things. Being alive should be enough to make us happy, if it doesn't, then you need to slow down and remove yourself from distractions.

You will come to accept that you're enough to make yourself happy- The only way to achieve sustainable happiness is to be happy with the bare minimum. You know the reason why? Maintaining anything requires constants and the only thing you can never lose and can never have worry about losing is yourself. You can lose everything but you can't lose yourself, you will always have yourself. Learn to be happy with just yourself and everything else positive that comes your way will only be a very pleasant surprise.

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